How to help a teenage girl to move to the stage of growing up
How to help a teenage girl to move to the stage of growing up
Each parent during adolescencehis child is going through and trying to at least help something. In fact, this is right, because it depends a lot on the parents, how self-assured the child will enter a new adult life. And most often it is for girls, much harder than boys, to cross this growing barrier.
And am I sympathetic?
This is the most urgent issue for young ladies. They can look at themselves for a long time in a mirror, and every pimple for them is a whole tragedy. Therefore, parents should first of all exclude any criticism of their daughter. Especially it concerns appearance and figure. Everyone knows for sure that there are women, completely with an inconspicuous appearance, who consider themselves beauties and from cavaliers have no lights out. But it's all thanks to their wise parents.
First love
Usually scares parents: whether there will be traumas, whether grandsons will go. It's time to talk about contraception or at least put in a prominent place a book about it. Even if you do not like the boy in whom your daughter is in love, do not actively "open her eyes" too actively. The daughter will simply close and will not share anything with you. Better tell her about your first love.
Search yourself
The grown up children begin to be grouped togetherby interest. You will not always like the daughter company, but the main thing is that there is no danger to life and health in them. This is exactly the time for talking and arguing with your daughter. It is important that they retain respect for the young girl.
Oh, this physiology
Adolescence - the time of hormonalchanges. The girl is growing rapidly, the proportions of the body are changing. Only after noticing the first changes in your daughter, be sure to tell her what will happen to her every month. Buy in advance gaskets and explain how to use them.
I'm already an adult
At this time, adolescents begin to actively manifestindependence. Often, girls begin to ignore the household duties already assigned to them. At this moment you need to show both perseverance and understanding. Remind your daughter that adult people have not only privileges, but, above all, additional responsibility. Be sure to give your daughter the right to make decisions on some issues, but much should remain under your control, because you are responsible for her upbringing and health.
