Teaching a child to share toys
Teaching a child to share toys
Children with a small age difference of interestand games are similar. Children often swear and can not share toys. Raising children of the same age is not an easy task. After all, each child needs an individual approach.
Rivalry between children occurs on differentreasons and most often manifested in the game. If children do not want to share toys, then it shows that they are fighting for the attention of their parents. The older child tries to show his superiority and draw the parents' attention to themselves, and the younger child, imitating the behavior of the elder, adopts the style of behavior.
It also occurs when parents, someone fromchildren regret more (younger child, girl), because of this jealousy between children grows hotbed. Understand that bad behavior does not appear by itself. Children are like a blank leaf, they are not born with a certain set of knowledge. The first year and a half of their life they observe and learn behavior patterns, they look at their parents playing children on the street and on the basis of the data they subsequently build their own model of behavior.
Try to teach the child how to shareearlier, ask permission from another child to play with the toy. If the child is not inferior to the toy, then offer him another. By giving clear instructions in the game, the children will be laid the foundations and principles of the collective game.
Since two and a half years already can be taughtchild play toys in turn, the task of an adult is to establish rules and monitor their implementation. If the child is aggressive, stop it. Showing that you can not show such emotions.
The main thing is to show a good example. Be patient, do not select toys by force, even when you are annoyed and angry at them. By observing these rules, you can defeat the competition between children and teach them to share.
