What to do if a child grows capricious
What to do if a child grows capricious
One of the important reasons for the emergence of vagaries is the constant compliance of the parents. In addition, there are other reasons that parents should study.
By the end of the first year of life, the child beginslittle by little realize that you should scream a little, he will immediately be given everything he wants. It is during this period that the character of the child is laid. Parents are sorry to punish a child at this age. And when the kid starts shouting, demanding something, one often hears a phrase: "Let him, do not shout". He quickly remembers and understands this phrase.
With age it becomes worse, the child growstoo capricious. Two- and three-year-old children roll hysterics on the street and in the store. And moms tear hair on their heads, wondering what to do and how to re-educate a little bully. First of all, it should be noted that this is the fault of the parents. Therefore, it is better not to go on the occasion of the child and not raise him spoiled, in this case there will be no question of how to re-educate.
The child wants to achieve his, and the mostthe correct reaction to this situation is calmness in relation to children's emotions. For example, when the kid in the store screams, trying to buy a new toy, it is better to move away from him for some distance. He will be a bit offended, but he will certainly calm down. Over time, the child will understand that hysteria does not help him in achieving the goal. In no case do you need to shout at the baby or raise your voice. He will not rest, as a child at this age is not ready to understand and accept a refusal to his demands. It is necessary to give the child more time. If the child is full and does not want to sleep, but still crying, do not immediately get angry with him, believing that he is just spoiled. It is possible that he is bored, he wants to play with someone, and he does not have enough attention of the elders. The child does not need to pamper too much, namely, to go with him on the subject. He gets used to the fact that everything is permitted to him and grows capricious and disobedient. This is bad not only for parents who stop coping with the child. This is bad for the baby, and his future.
Children, spoiled by parents, in the future do notCan take care of themselves. The boys grow helpless, waiting for parents to give him both an apartment and a car. Girls will find it hard to find a husband, since they will find in each man exactly who will fulfill all their whims. It is necessary to raise a child delicately, without going over to cries. For example, if a child watches cartoons for too long, it is not necessary to demon- stratively turn off the TV and talk to the child "not." We need to interest him in some other matter, for example, a joint game.
And one more important rule. If the parents are impulsive, enter the conflict without reason and start from half a turn, do not expect the child to do something else. He will not be calm. Kids in all parody their parents to a certain age. And the last thing that everyone should remember is that the child should not be beaten. This will make it aggressive. It is better to look for other ways of punishment, for example deprivation of cartoons or something tasty.
